The Bakers - l-r Sugar, Jim, Suzy, & Sally. Daughter Sarah took the photo!It began with a love of horses. I am not sure, but I believe there are not that many families which event together, outside of mother/daughter combinations. Collectively we have 5 active competing family members consisting of 2 sisters, my wife, daughter and me. When we all compete at the same event, it is a fun sibling/family rivalry. We compete from Intermediate down to BN depending on the horses we have at the time, filling out the lower levels of eventing which do not get much press.
My sisters and I grew up outside Warrenton,Virgina where there were always horses around. Our first pony was a gift from Ian and Neva Montgomery when I was 6. The stubbornness of the Shetland was probably a good lesson in the early formative years. Our father fox hunted and we all began with a lead line in the hill toppers. At opening meet this year, it will be 50 seasons for me from that first lead line in a hunt field.
My next younger sister, Suzy Baker Gehris, always had the “horse bug” and was gifted with an innate ability to relate to horses. Her ability to communicate with them gives her an advantage and almost always ends high up in the ribbons. Memories include her at age 5 galloping a pony bareback, blond pigtails flying, doing laps around the house in the yard; much to the chagrin of our mother (did I mention it was hot so she had taken off all her clothes, Lady Godiva at age 5?). Another was a single rail, bareback, jump off contest when I was in my college years home for a visit. We stopped at something over 5 feet due to darkness, neither one of us willing to admit defeat.
My youngest sister, Sally Baker Muncy, had better access to better ponies and hunter/jumper riding. Her form remains to this day technically accurate, graceful and probably the most beautiful rider of us all. We were fairly typical of the 2-horse-tag-along-behind-the-station-wagon, barn-in-the-back-yard people. We had a series of horses that were gifts (remembering never to look one in the mouth) or inexpensive or cast offs, never anything significant. So we all learned to make the best of what we had. Lessons were each of us helping the other.